Answer this honestly - do you love yourself? If you answered yes, would you say the same thing if I asked you that to your face? Would you say 'yes I do' with confidence, or would you laugh, avoid the question or perhaps come straight out with a 'no' because you don't want anyone to think you are vain?
In my personal opinion, there is a difference between loving yourself in a positive way, and loving yourself in an egotistical way. I love myself. I love myself and I am proud of it. I love myself because I am happy in my own skin, I am happy with who I am and like many women I have been on a long journey to even get to a point where I can say that. However, and I really want to emphasise this, I don't love myself in the way that I spend hours looking at myself in the mirror and feeding my own ego, and I would hate for anyone to take my words and assume I mean the latter, which I'm guessing, sadly, a lot of people probably would do. They would hear me say the words 'I love myself' and see it as being a negative thing.
As a woman, I find it disgusting that society often says that women who say that they love themselves is a bad thing, a sign of vanity, and arrogance, because it really isn't. (I understand in some cases it can be, but I'm talking about self-love in the positive form) Loving yourself is deeper than physical appearance, physical appearance may not even come into the equation at all. I guess that goes down to your personal opinion on what self-love is and whether you consider it to be solely who you are inside or all that you are, and either is OK, it's personal perception. To me loving yourself for who you are, what you stand for and believe in, what you feel and represent is what is important. The inner you. Loving yourself as a whole is a good thing too, if you think you are pretty or have lovely hair, a good body, or a cute nose - good for you! Confidence is a wonderful thing, and that isn't to say you don't see faults, we all have our own insecurities, things we'd like to change or improve, we are all a constant work in progress as none of us are perfect but self-love isn't about seeing yourself as a being of perfection, it's about seeing yourself as you, and being happy with what you see and what you are. Having compassion for the self and being open to change and growth.
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Hi loves! What a busy few weeks I've had. M.E Awareness week this year was a huge success and I'd like to thank everyone who watched the video Meg from meg-says and I filmed, which you can watch in my previous blog post, here - M.E awareness week is the busiest and arguably the most important week of the year for me so it means so much that my friends online supported me - you're all the best!
Now that things have calmed down a bit I'll be getting back into posting more regularly, I have loads of style posts, positivity posts and a little secret surprise in the pipeline, so watch this space!
Now, onto the outfit... I bought this two piece in the Boohoo sale back in January and have finally got round to wearing it. I love the layered look and the way it looks when the wind catches it. I wore it with my chunky boots from spylovebuy.com, and went big on the accessories, opting for my favourite floppy hat, vintage bag and gold jewellery for a Gypsy Warrior inspired look.
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Today, May 12th, is International M.E Awareness Day. M.E is an illness I have had for the past four years. An illness which has taken so much from me, almost taken my life, and caused not only me, but my family so much heartache and pain.
My best friend Meg (who also has the illness) and I have filmed a video where we talk about M.E. What it is, who is affected, what happens, our own experiences with it, and how you can help this week. Our biggest aim is to get people talking, to get people thinking and hopefully understanding more. It is such a complex, debilitating, hugely misunderstood condition. I will let the video do the talking but I hope it helps you, weather you are a sufferer of M.E or not.
For now though, I'd like to wish all of my friends who have M.E a HAPPY AWARENESS DAY!
Find Meg (isn't she just beautiful?) here:
Please share, RT, generally show love, etc etc, it is truly appreciated. If you have any questions, please free to ask us anything, we are both more than happy to answer your questions.
If you have M.E and would like further emotional support, you can visit this website where they have lots of useful tools and information